At the end of this school year, I felt totally without energy, I didn't enjoy anything, I hated the everyday always same routine and all people around. During the summer holiday I met so many different people, I visited many places and I was in so many different situations so I started thinking about how to end this stereotype. I can't change the character of people around me, I can't affect where I live or many other things because of my age. But I can change myself and my attitude ...
A lot of people often care too much about what other people think about them and they try to look and act certain way to fit somewhere. We are afraid to do mistakes, be ourselves, do what we really love and stand for what we believe in, just because our opinion is different from the opinion of the majority. I live exactly like this. In fact for a lot of years I suffer with kind of social phobia and because of that most of people know me as the "average" and "quiet" girl, because I'm not able to act real in the society.
But nobody else will live our life. Altough I'm just 16, I already regret I didn't try some things and didn't do more than thinking people who stared at me in the street when I didn't have perfect makeup and I was wearing wrinkled shirt or classmates who were laughing at me when we said something wrong during the lesson. People who really love me, they love me with messy hair, no makeup, talkative, moody and ambitious, they love me for who I am in real ... If someone criticise you and gossip about you, it's not a person who really cares about you. And because of that you don't have to care about him at all.
I start realizing more and more that everyone should live the way he wants to, do things that makes him happy, do them with love, surround with people who love you for who you are, be who you are and be honest with others - and especially with yourself.
Let's enjoy our hobbies, time spent with our family and friends, enjoy good food and drinks, sunsets, beautiful nature, summer storm, evening wind ... Let's try to share the positive vibes with people around us instead of paying attention to their flaws. It's great feeling to make someone's day beautiful ... :)
Have a lovely time and love yourself <3
Strašně krásný článek, ve kterém jsem se našla. Byly časy, kdy jsem se strašně bála lidí a společnosti, protože kdokoliv se na mě jen podíval už jsem si myslela něco hrozné.. Každopádně tak to dál nešlo, přišla jsem si, že nic nedělám pro sebe, ale hlavně pro lidi kolem - abych se jim líbila, byla pro ně dost dobrá. Díkybohu nadešel čas, kdy jsem si to uvědomila a přestala s tím. Chci si užívat svůj život a nezajímá mě že to někomu může vadit.
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To je skvělý 😙 Moc ti to přeju.. podle mě byt spokojený sám se sebou je ta nejdůležitější věc na světě a bez toho nemůžeme byt nikdy opravdu šťastní a užívat si svůj život 😊
DeleteJá mám letos něco podobného. Mám v sobě hrozný pocit nějakého progressu, který ale nemohu určit tak přesně jako Ty. Možná to dělá to léto, ale snažím se si užít každou volnou chvilku, radovat se z maličkostí a z negativních věcí si nedělat hlavu. A mám se o 100% lépe než dřív :)
ReplyDeleteNáhodou jsi to vystihla úplně přesně, já mám pocit, že jsem vůbec za tenhle rok nějak "myšlenkově dospěla" :D
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